Relationships

Holiday Mistletoe

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I have never been kissed under mistletoe. Am I alone on this? Maybe it’s because I’ve never went out to a Christmas tree patch, and purchased it myself. I hardly ever decorate my home for Christmas; hints to why I’ve never been kissed under mistletoe. This year is a new year, and I’m getting kissed under a mistletoe!

Kissing under the mistletoe has been around for centuries. It’s believed, if you’re a couple and you kiss under the mistletoe, it’s interpreted as a promise to marry, as well as a prediction of happiness and long life. There are many songs about spreading love under the mistletoe such as Justin Bieber-mistletoe.

Mistletoe does not smell, so it can easily be hung up with out people noticing it. If you’re hosting a Christmas party this year for your friends and family, disguise hung mistletoe in the doorway of your front door. It’s a great way to open your front door to greet your guest with a kiss. In fact if you’re inviting that guy, you’ve had a crush on over, you can secretly get that first kiss.

Can you remember the last time you kissed under mistletoe? Was it a magical kiss that we all read about in romance novels or a kiss that you wish had never happened. Send us some of your memorable Holiday Mistletoe moments. Merry Christmasphoto(5)

Know your self-worth

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When it comes to dating someone, do you have a list of standards he must meet? I recently read a blog post from Hello Giggles with tips about dating smartly. I do think it’s best to have standards when it comes to dating. Not saying you should expect each guy to fulfill all your standards. Just pay attention to his mannerisms.I have a few friends that are single, that tell me all about their experiences with guys: from online dating,  bars or even at the grocery story. I hear that,  “he’s not that tall”,  “he’s grungy looking”, “he’s  a musician”, “he drives a nice car”, “I just don’t know if  he is right for me?”.

I found myself wondering; do we really know our type? Have you ever felt a guy was totally beneath you? Did you give him a shot or did you turn him down? What about the guy that was intimidating because of his job and social circle? If so, did he cause you to have insecurities in the relationship?

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Emotional insecurity is a horrible feeling. It makes you feel  vulnerable, self-conscious and nervous. This can cause us to lack confidence within ourselves, which can intern draw us to someone who is  not deserving. No amount of money, gifts, or a new boyfriend can satisfy you completely. You must love yourself first. You have to protect yourself, and by doing this you have to love you. Just like Hello giggles stated “Even if you’re single forever, the self-love and respect you will cultivate for yourself will bring you more happiness than anything else.” This means practice making yourself happy. When you do get in a new relationship, you’re not searching for validation from someone else. You will already know what makes you happy, your turn on’s and turn off’s, and how to give without expecting anything in return.

Do things that make you happy daily. Pat yourself on the back when you accomplish a task, or had a great day at work. Smile often and stimulate your mind, body, and soul daily.

“You have to stand for something, or you’ll fall for everything.” Know your self-worth.

Fridayship

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Good relationships are hard to find! You must nurture, be selfless, and sometimes lose your pride.. but it’s all worth it. Without these connections, you would not be who you are. In this section we will take time to cover these relationships, by understanding why they help make us who we are. You are born within a circle, but this is something you can’t control. You can’t pick your family, but fortunately, you can pick your friends. We’ll be your support when times are hard, because this is the most challenging aspect of your life. You can’t control other; but you can control yourself. Hashtag #Fridayship